Saturday, June 13, 2009

Three Weeks Ago...

.....I had just painted Mikey's room the Thursday before


(Sorry, the pictures are blurry and the room is messy and the chair railing isn't up yet...but it's the best I've got)


and now it was Saturday, so it was time to grocery shop, weed, pick up dog poop, walk the dog, clean the house, etc...My normal schedule. I was going to bed at 11:30 and my normal braxton hicks that I'd been having regularly since 15 weeks started feeling like they were hurting more than normal. I ignored it and went to sleep.

At 1:30, I was awake and in pain. I laid in bed for two hours talking myself in and out of thoughts of whether or not I was in labor and then decided that if I took a bath and they went away, then I definitely wasn't in labor. When that didn't take them away, I walked around for a while, thinking if they went away after that, then I wasn't in labor. When they still didn't, we called Michaels parents to come to be with Mikey and we went to the Women and Infants Pavillion.


We checked in at 4:45 and at 5:30 they checked me and I was dilated to a 5/6. My doctor was out of town for Memorial Day weekend so the doctor on call decided that at 35 weeks she would rather just stop the labor. So she gave me some medicine to stop my contractions and for an hour I got used to the idea that I was going home. Then they checked me and I was a 6/7.
So I thought that maybe I had a chance, but they kept giving me the medicine that made my contractions very random and far apart. At 9 in the morning, the doctor said that there was not stopping my labor and took me off the medicine. Then I had my regular contractions back. It was actually the best labor because that was the hardest part and it only lasted just over an hour before I got my epidural.

The nurse checked me at 11:30 and told me I was at a 10 and was going to call the doctor. I didn't believe her. With Mikey, when I was at a ten, I couldn't NOT push. I didn't even know I was a ten this time. The doctor came and asked if I was ready. I said, sure. She said, wow, you're pretty calm. I said, ya, I know. Weird. (It really was wierd)

(WARNING: gross part coming up, but it's Michael's favorite part...)

The doctor told me I could push and so I pushed once, not even full out and my water broke and shot four feet ahead and soaked the doctor's hair and face. I was pretty embarrassed, but by the time I stopped laughing and two pushes later, Riley came out.

He didn't pass his APGAR for breathing so they took him to NICU for four hours, but then I finally got to hold him and really, he hasn't barely let me put him down since. Pretty easy day, really. I feel like I cheated. One month less of being pregnant, barely any pain (during or after labor) and a really good baby.

Riley relaxing while on his billirubin lights...he's a blue ET

With his early arrival though, I had an unfinished list of things to do that I've been working on slowly, but it's still looming over my every day tasks. These include:

Finish a quilt from the material my mom sent me. And cover my burp cloths.



Cover my bumper that I got for a dollar on ebay and hang the stars and vinyl in the nursery



Finish my bird mobile that looks like this




But is supposed to look like this




(Insert random nursery shots....)







Figure out how I'm supposed to fit in the walking the dog and playing with Mikey and excersizing and cleaning and cooking all while holding a baby and getting by on a nightly schedule that hardly varies from what happened last night:


11:30- Go to bed
12:30- Get woken up by Michael going to bed
1:00- Feed Riley
1:30- Get in bed
2:15- Comfort Mikey who is getting over a cold and the flu (along with me and Riley-yucky week)
3:00-3:30- listen to the blasted dog whine for food (why so early? I wish I knew)
4:00- Feed baby
5:00- Change fussy baby
5:30- Michael works in LA today so his alarm goes off
6:15- Mikey wakes up
Rest of Day- I walk around as a zombie making food, cleaning, grocery shopping, going to library, etc, etc, etc...other moms, you know the drill.

Will I ever sleep again?
Will someone nice take the dog off my hands so I don't have to feel guilty that I can't play with her or walk her like I used to?
Will my to do list ever end?

Things I have to say I love about having a new baby though:

Mikey loving "Baby Liley"
Mikey playing by himself more

Mikey flying like Buzz...

Mikey painting Mickey. My parents got him a bunch of stuff to do while I'm nursing the baby and as you can tell, he LOVES it.


Riley's soft little face that is getting chubby already (he's already grown over two inches too!)

The smell of Pampers diapers
The excuse to see family more

My sons with my husband

Saying "my sons"

Life is good....


10 comments:

Liz said...

What a story! I'm so glad everything was well with Riley and yourself. I hope managing two kiddo's gets easier - but I can't really offer any advice... yet.
Congrats, again!

Hope said...

Wow, just reading that made me feel tired for you! I love the water breaking moment, that's priceless, not many people can have a funny story like that. I'm glad all is well and hope you can manage to squeeze in a few extra winks of sleep!

Cayli said...

Reading this makes me think twice or three times about having another one. Sadie sleeps so well and I am not so sure she would handle another little person as well as Mikey.

La Vita Bella said...

Wow, what a way to have a baby! Your nursery is so cute. I love the stars. I hope your schedule can calm down soon. the first few months are so hard. I always went to bed so early, because I knew Anna would be up soon, wanting to be fed and I was wasted by 9 pm. lol. I got your thank you card the other day. We should do a play date some time or I can watch Mikey some time if you want to catch up on sleep or get stuff done. :)

Meg said...

I love the labor and delivery story! I too hope you can start getting more sleep...haha, right? I really don't know how you do it, even though Beck is sleeping well at night now I still go to bed by 10pm (or earlier some nights!) cause I'm still so tired. I'm very impressed! At least it's totally worth it, you have a beautiful little family!

Brad and Lezlee Strong said...

CONGRATS TARA! I love reading about the whole birthing experience! You are amazing! I love love love the bird mobile! The rooms look great! Riley is beautiful and I can't believe how fast the time has gone by! It felt like yesturday we were at Erin's shower talking about you just being pregnant! What a beautiful fam! Hope you are doing well!

Andrew & Kristin said...

Congrats! That is so exciting. And a totally awesome story. I can't believe it. Mikey is so big and so cute. Thats too bad about the doctor though. Do you think he got to go home after or he had to stay in it all day? JK Miss you!

AAErickson said...

Congratulations!!! Riley is so stinkin' cute!!! Your water breaking was my favorite part of the story! I hope all is well!

Nicole and Abe said...

I REALLY want to know how to make that mobile. It is SO cute. Did you have a pattern that you went by? So are you in Utah to? If we are here at the same time, we should see each other!

Katie said...

So Tara I'm blog stalking you off of Cayli's. Congrats on the babe and I have to say the part of your water breaking is freaking hillarious. Hope all is well. Katie (Kraus)