Thursday, June 23, 2011

Parents Visit and Full Disclosure

Last week my parents came to visit. We were so happy to have them and the trip flew by so fast. My dad was sick with a cough and fever the whole time and my mom is still recovering from surgery and they still came and helped out. They will always be sacrificing for their children.


I guess it's time for some full disclosure. I mentioned before that we were pregnant with our third baby. We are super excited to have found out that he is a he and the boys are excited for another brother. I am almost 22 weeks now and this baby has popped out and is kicking like crazy. Like huge kicks even the boys can feel. It's fun. And reassuring.


At ten weeks I was starting to cramp and have contractions, but no bleeding or anything. Because Riley was almost 6 weeks early, they had planned to put me on P17 progesterone shots at 16 weeks to stop the preterm labor and try and keep this baby cooking longer. The shots have been working wonders. The contractions are so rare right now and my cervix was effacing but is now at 3 cm (not dilated, lengthwise) and staying put for now. But, I have partial placenta previa so I have been on bed rest since 17 weeks or so.



I guess that means it has only been a month or so, but it feels way longer. It is harder than you think so stay put on a couch. The boys have been fantastic and my friends and ward members are really taking care of us. And Michael has stepped up and taken on more roles than I could even have asked of him. He is going to school for his MBA full time, working full time, EQ president and taking care of me and the boys.


Thus, a trip from my parents to help out. They came and helped me organize some toys in the kitchen so I wasn't cleaning 5 rooms a day and helped with snack boxes for the kids, organizing meals etc.


The funniest thing is I feel great, I just have to sit for the baby. Still no bleeding and the doctors are baffled and happy about that. I go back on July 1st for another ultrasound to check the placenta previa. I'm also seeing the doctor once and sometimes twice a week for shots and such, so I am well taken care of.



Michael gave me a blessing and it said if I listen to the drs the baby will be full term and healthy, so I am feeling no stress at all. Just mostly guilt for watching everyone around me do everything. Especially my parents coming all the way out here for this. But I reverted to childhood and was SO happy to have my mommy and daddy around.


We didn't do much cus we were all a bunch of sickies so the pics I have are of us sitting around. My dad has a bunch more, like always, and I need to get more from them.


It was a great trip and the kids are still asking for them. It was nice to see them grow closer because they don't get to see them that often. They were all best friends.


Thanks mom and dad for coming to help and thank you everyone else who is helping every day : )




The babies love grandpas IPhone


Riley is an old pro on the thing



Grandpa and Mikey napping




We took my parents out to lunch for Fathers Day. The kids won't walk with me once they see their grandparents.








Thanks mom and dad for all your help!




5 comments:

Ashley said...

Oh I'm so glad your parents were there to help you so much! I am so glad you are feeling well, but I didn't know you were on bedrest. What a pain, you have a good attitude and sounds like Michael is a great support. YeAH for boy #3. They'll be the best of buds for sure!

Esther said...

Congratulations on having another boy on the way! I am so sorry that the pregnancy has been rough so far. You will be in our prayers. I hope that everything goes well. I'm glad that your parents were able to come and visit. Good luck!!

Meg said...

Congrats on your baby boy on the way! I can't believe you're already on bedrest - I can only imagine how hard that is with two little ones, but like Ashley said, I'm impressed with your positive attitude, you're a great mom! I'm glad your parents could go out and help you, moms and dads are the best :)

Sean and Sierra said...

I'm so happy your parents got to visit. And don't geel guilty about letting others take care of you. Everyone just wants you and teh baby to be healthy! ;)

Brooke said...

Hi Tara, I ran across your blog awhile ago, and am glad to see your baby is healthy and happy so far. Your boys are adorable. I know what you mean about bed rest. I just spent a few weeks on it as well with my little girl-- and it is a lot harder and less enjoyable than most people realize.

Good luck with the next couple months!